Friday, August 3, 2007

Why does my 'best friend' hate and ignore me all of the sudden?

I thought my friend were best friends before he did this :(. Anyway my friend zach and I have been great friends since last year. Not to be gay but I really feel like he was always my friend. He always made me laugh and have a good time no matter what. I noticed he hangs around some other Of his friends now. Hangs out with them then me. On and off. Then he started to completely ignore me. In the halls, in class, Facebook and anything else. I message him and no reply. I talk to him he walks away. I don't know what to do! He even left a note in my locker saying he's not ignoring me he's spending more time with his other friends. Which is a lie because he's completely ignoring me :( all I think that could of possibly gone wrong is nothing. I am a great friend to him and we always had good times together. I try asking what's wrong but no luck. Please help, I really want to be friends with him but I don't know what's wrong :(

Answer on Why does my 'best friend' hate and ignore me all of the sudden?

If you've tried to ask him what has been going on and he won't tell you, then there is nothing left to do but walk away from the friendship. You can't fix what you don't know you've done. Since he has moved on, then you should too. It's too bad that a person is so self centered that they can't even tell you what's going on to save your friendship. Clearly he is not a true friend. If he were, he'd let you know what's going on.

I feel for you because it sounds like he meant a lot to you but he has turned out to be a disappointment .

Take care and I hope you find another person who can become a good, supportive friend.