Tuesday, October 30, 2001

I'm sick of being confused am I bisexual?

Okay. I'm 15 years old. I'm attracted to girls for sure but have never gone no further than a kiss. I don't think I'm really attracted to boys I feel like I'm just pretending to fit in. I don't feel the same way about guys as I do about girls, I prefer girls. I've had sex with four different men; once when I was 13, once when I were 14 and twice this year. Each time I don't really enjoy it or feel attracted to him, I just do it for the sake of fitting in. I'm never sexually attracted to a guy even though I say they look fit.

I feel like I've ruined any chance I would have ever had with a girl now. I don't know what to do. How do I know if I am straight, bisexual or what or whether this is just a phase?

Answer on I'm sick of being confused am I bisexual?

Okay, just stop trying to fit in all the time, trust me. I think you had sex too young, that's the first problem. Your body isn't mature enough to handle both emotional and physical aspects of it. Second, stop trying to label yourself. Just go with the flow and what is happening NOW. Stop wondering whether or not you're bi or gay or whatever, if you see a girl you like, fine. I f you see a boy you like then fine. Stop worrying, there is no point in putting yourself in a box, especially since you're so young and might feel different in a few years. I had the same problem as you where I was trying to label myself, but now ive just stopped trying i feel great. Take my advice, seriously. And stop sleeping around, you need to clear your head and you don't want to get a bad reputation.